8 Tips for Raising Independent Kids

One of the greatest feelings in the world is to see our kids growing up in front of us. It feels good whenever they ask our guidance and advice. Yes, as a parent we all want to lessen our children’s stress and chores. But have you ever wondered how this dependency of our kids on us killing their self-confidence and hurting them to become self-dependent in the long run?

As a kid grows up, we must infuse skill into them and the capability of using those skills into practical life. Thus, as a parent, our long-term goal is to raise our child as an independent kid rather upbringing a kid low in confidence. Therefore, today I would like to discuss 8 tips for raising independent kids. Stay tuned, to know how to make your children self-dependent booming with confidence and life surviving skills. 

8 Ultimate tips to raise your children independently:

The modern world is a cruel place where only the fittest and most competitive ones survive. It implies the significance of helping our children grow independently to fit them best with the harsh reality of the world. 

  1. Don’t complete their task

As parents, we all eagerly complete every task of our children. And we feel happy with it thinking that our children are getting rid of the monotonous job. Alas! Little do we know how harmful it is for them in the long-run.

Rather, it is better to let them do their tasks. You might start with allowing them to arrange their bed, cleaning their dish after dinner and lunch, lacing their show and so on. These little tasks will help them grow a sense of solvency and understand the importance of work. As they grow older, leave more works on them.

  1. Encourage contribution

 Allow your children to contribute to the family in any way they might do. It encourages them to take responsibility at an early age. Furthermore, it builds a sense of feeling important in them. I have seen families where parents and children work hard to develop their garden. Those children as grew up yield better harvest than their parents.  

If you have more than one child in your home, allow and encourage the older one to take care and teach the younger ones. It not only builds a strong family bond but also make children self-dependent.

  1. Pay attention and recognize their achievement

In a busy world like today, everyone loves attention and your children aren’t an exception to it. This helps them build their personality. Moreover, recognize and appreciate their achievements. Nora Saikah, a child psychiatrist in research found that appreciation helps children grow their inner confidence that results positively in building their self-dependent personality. 

Always recognize your children work and sometimes a little gift as a token of appreciation will do wonder. You can buy them some outdoor toys and gift like best 3 wheel scooters. Kids will enjoy it & it helps them to get outside exercising through having fun.

  1. Show respect and love

As your child grows up, you should respect them and show your love for them. Most parents think that children aren’t eligible enough to get respect and it simply ruins their confidence level. If your child feels loved and knows that they won’t be rebuked for their unintentional mistakes, they will try beyond their limits to learn and demonstrate new skills. On the other hand, if you yell regularly at your child, it will act negatively in their mind.

One great way of showing love and respect to your child is to ask their advice in family decisions. Although they are merely kid and might lack practical knowledge, this will make them feel important. Eventually, it will develop their mentality and will increase their problem-solving ability in the future.

  1. Teach skills

One day your child will grow up as an adult person and need different skills to survive in the competitive world. So focus on teaching them these skills at an early age. This will enable them to cope up with the tough surroundings better.

As they grow older teach them laundry, cooking, money-managing skills, and so on. This will help them nourish qualities to become an independent adult in the future. 

  1. Compromise and co-operation

Teach your children to compromise and cooperate with others. I have seen many parents fulfilling the tiniest wishes of their children. Although it is a good practice, sometimes make them understand the value of things. For instance, if you have two boys at your home, instead of buying them two video game box, bring them one. Tell them to share it among them. Moreover, teach them to donate to the less facilitated people. You should set an example in front of them through your philanthropic works. 

  1. Cognitive environment

Create an environment in your home where your children might flourish their independent thinking. You can do it by allowing them to take decisions in some cases. 

  • Let them choose their dress during the weekends and stay at home. Don’t tell them to wear a particular one. 
  • Allow them to choose from the menu set in your dinning-table. Remember that, they are different individuals and have different choices.
  1. Allow mistakes

Your child is going to make mistakes in the process of learning. Instead of rebuking them for such unintentional mistakes, teach them positively. For instance, if your child forgets to lace his shoe, instead of rebuking him, tell that his shoes are looking different. He will notice the reason and also won’t feel embarrassed.

By allowing your kids to make mistakes you give them the flexibility to show their creativity. It helps them build self-confidence and eventually it leads them to accomplish bigger works as they are no more frightened of being rebuked for their failures.

Final Thought

Parenting is a difficult job with sharp edges on both sides of the sword. Therefore carefully pick the best options to help your child grow independent. Furthermore, remember that in some circumstances, your child might react slowly. In such cases show your patience. In fact, your appropriate love, care and attention to your child are the basics of growing them independently. So, build an environment full of such features around your child. 

2019-08-02T07:55:00-04:00 By |Travel Blog|0 Comments

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